Ever wondered, wat if there was an eternal life with no-endings??
OK , Some people may wana suicide even now .. :P
I saw my granma dying , yeah it was a painful and an unforgettable moment.
Her last breath..( I still remember )
Yeah , I was NUMB...
What if, a phone call comes today n tell us that someone so dearly and close to us died..
Ever wondered wat would happen then?
Well,Im nt afraid of death or facing it.
When someone we love so dearly dies,
We dunno how t cope with it.
So let mi give u some ideas..
HOW TO COPE WITH DEATH..
1# CRY
"crying is pain leaving the body"
Im nt saying here to "aduga neyy thannah halheyy lavaa kahh !!!''
Wat m trying to say is yeah its good t cry .
Don't bottle up everything,
C'mon we are humans..and there are limits.
You might burst like a water-filled balloon
in midst of nowhere , really.
OK vaane smtms findi viyaz (spcl.guys ingey)
It will gv you some relief. *hugs*
2# NO GUILT
"I feel guilty cz I wsnt there wen she/he needed me most... n bla bla''
C'mon dnt say dat , whatever happened has happened.
Dnt let yourself be a victim of ur own thoughts.
Oh and yeah "NO WHAT IFS!!!" ( anekka butterfly effect ga vaa henn vedhaane) *wink*
3# MEMORIES
"Memory is a way of holding on to things you love, the things you have, things you never want to lose"
Remember the happy moments you had..
Rather than grieving, because it will make things from worse to worser and worsest and finally ICU.(den baakeee thibi meehuun nuroahh vaa... *pchs*)
Sweet memories do make you smile.. :)
Go through their album o just make an album or something like remembrance book o write stuffs in your diary ( - yeah it helps)
4#WISHES
Your loved ones will want you to be happy ofcoz,
they'll nt wana see you sitting or lying in a dark room locked up,
Yeah it would be hard,really, painful but their last wish would be you to face it and still smile.
Being the best you can be, knowing tad they count on you to do so will really help. :D
They wont wana see you going through all the pain and since there are not with you anymore.
You should be strong !!! *spank*
5# TIME
You'll need time and yeah it will take time..
I know its easy for me to say all these ,
but each one of us sometime in life,
now or later we have to face this reality.
The reality that will haunt each one of us.
BUT time will heal it..
it will be painful and will hurt ,
each n every vessels, bones, deep inside the heart,
and affect your mind, your feeling and your life !!!
I hope this teeny weeny little article becomes helpful in your life someway -someday !!! *hugs*
