Ever wondered, wat if there was an eternal life with no-endings??
OK , Some people may wana suicide even now .. :P
I saw my granma dying , yeah it was a painful and an unforgettable moment.
Her last breath..( I still remember )
Yeah , I was NUMB...
What if, a phone call comes today n tell us that someone so dearly and close to us died..
Ever wondered wat would happen then?
Well,Im nt afraid of death or facing it.
When someone we love so dearly dies,
We dunno how t cope with it.
So let mi give u some ideas..
OK , Some people may wana suicide even now .. :P
I saw my granma dying , yeah it was a painful and an unforgettable moment.
Her last breath..( I still remember )
Yeah , I was NUMB...
What if, a phone call comes today n tell us that someone so dearly and close to us died..
Ever wondered wat would happen then?
Well,Im nt afraid of death or facing it.
When someone we love so dearly dies,
We dunno how t cope with it.
So let mi give u some ideas..
HOW TO COPE WITH DEATH..
1# CRY
"crying is pain leaving the body"
Im nt saying here to "aduga neyy thannah halheyy lavaa kahh !!!''
Wat m trying to say is yeah its good t cry .
Don't bottle up everything,
C'mon we are humans..and there are limits.
You might burst like a water-filled balloon
in midst of nowhere , really.
OK vaane smtms findi viyaz (spcl.guys ingey)
It will gv you some relief. *hugs*
2# NO GUILT
"I feel guilty cz I wsnt there wen she/he needed me most... n bla bla''
C'mon dnt say dat , whatever happened has happened.
Dnt let yourself be a victim of ur own thoughts.
Oh and yeah "NO WHAT IFS!!!" ( anekka butterfly effect ga vaa henn vedhaane) *wink*
3# MEMORIES
"Memory is a way of holding on to things you love, the things you have, things you never want to lose"
Remember the happy moments you had..
Rather than grieving, because it will make things from worse to worser and worsest and finally ICU.(den baakeee thibi meehuun nuroahh vaa... *pchs*)
Sweet memories do make you smile.. :)
Go through their album o just make an album or something like remembrance book o write stuffs in your diary ( - yeah it helps)
4#WISHES
Your loved ones will want you to be happy ofcoz,
they'll nt wana see you sitting or lying in a dark room locked up,
Yeah it would be hard,really, painful but their last wish would be you to face it and still smile.
Being the best you can be, knowing tad they count on you to do so will really help. :D
They wont wana see you going through all the pain and since there are not with you anymore.
You should be strong !!! *spank*
5# TIME
You'll need time and yeah it will take time..
I know its easy for me to say all these ,
but each one of us sometime in life,
now or later we have to face this reality.
The reality that will haunt each one of us.
BUT time will heal it..
it will be painful and will hurt ,
each n every vessels, bones, deep inside the heart,
and affect your mind, your feeling and your life !!!
I hope this teeny weeny little article becomes helpful in your life someway -someday !!! *hugs*
1# CRY
"crying is pain leaving the body"
Im nt saying here to "aduga neyy thannah halheyy lavaa kahh !!!''
Wat m trying to say is yeah its good t cry .
Don't bottle up everything,
C'mon we are humans..and there are limits.
You might burst like a water-filled balloon
in midst of nowhere , really.
OK vaane smtms findi viyaz (spcl.guys ingey)
It will gv you some relief. *hugs*
2# NO GUILT
"I feel guilty cz I wsnt there wen she/he needed me most... n bla bla''
C'mon dnt say dat , whatever happened has happened.
Dnt let yourself be a victim of ur own thoughts.
Oh and yeah "NO WHAT IFS!!!" ( anekka butterfly effect ga vaa henn vedhaane) *wink*
3# MEMORIES
"Memory is a way of holding on to things you love, the things you have, things you never want to lose"
Remember the happy moments you had..
Rather than grieving, because it will make things from worse to worser and worsest and finally ICU.(den baakeee thibi meehuun nuroahh vaa... *pchs*)
Sweet memories do make you smile.. :)
Go through their album o just make an album or something like remembrance book o write stuffs in your diary ( - yeah it helps)
4#WISHES
Your loved ones will want you to be happy ofcoz,
they'll nt wana see you sitting or lying in a dark room locked up,
Yeah it would be hard,really, painful but their last wish would be you to face it and still smile.
Being the best you can be, knowing tad they count on you to do so will really help. :D
They wont wana see you going through all the pain and since there are not with you anymore.
You should be strong !!! *spank*
5# TIME
You'll need time and yeah it will take time..
I know its easy for me to say all these ,
but each one of us sometime in life,
now or later we have to face this reality.
The reality that will haunt each one of us.
BUT time will heal it..
it will be painful and will hurt ,
each n every vessels, bones, deep inside the heart,
and affect your mind, your feeling and your life !!!
I hope this teeny weeny little article becomes helpful in your life someway -someday !!! *hugs*
8 comments:
UM.. hate to admit. bt i really have been avoiding the idea of death recently.. now that your article has reminded... i wil have to do some deep thinkin i ges.. u kno end is always expected.. it never is the question whether you would end or not. bt the question is like wen is the big day.. is it today or tomorrow.. or worse next day or next year..:P
anyways i agree with u for the most part.. i have to go against where u said 'Go through their album'.. i dnt think this step would be effective especially jst after or few days after that particular death..
I visit the cemetery occasionally just to remind myself that I am mortal. It has helped to remind me that I am mortal and in a way has gone a long way in helping me to conquer my fears and insecurities about death.
Mike Abraham-> So mike we have to get ready for the BIG DAY uh.. ehhe bt sad t say most of us are "dhuniyehge araamaa ufaathakah geyyllifa"
n yeah well thnx fr the comment regarding album :)
Hilath-> I believe thats a good thing !!!
criusly there shud be a visiting day to cemetery kan nege..:P
meehun busy vegen gos they find no time to visit and remind them of their death.. it will be quite a change..
i like the picture very much. starting from last year october since now, every month there has been a death of a close friends family member or my distant family member. But i didnt cry because i didnt know them, but been thinking about death a lot, since its bringing me to the cementry every month.It seems that my shoulders are very good and people seem to like it very much. non of my close friends or loved ones died yet, so i dont know how i am going to react, but sure will refer to your ideas..
That's true Binoculars.
Since September 2008, it's like I have been visiting the cemetery a lot too to pay last respects to acquaintances and distant relatives.
I wonder how I will fair if a close relative or a really close friend died. I shudder to think about it. I tried to imagine a situation where this person, say X, who is very close to me, does not exist anymore and forever I will never get to share a laugh with him/her.
But that's life dho anyone. Who said Nature had to favor anyone? Nature is indifferent. It's us intelligent living things which have emotions and feelings, once again to help us naturally survive in this setting.
Last night a former close colleague of mine died. He worked in Haveeru Daily's English edition.
He was a very nice and religious person. He had just finished school and joined Haveeru and worked there for one year.
But he was diagnosed with cancer and within a space of several months his health deteriorated and he thinned after the treatment and was hardly recognisable after that.
When I went to Aa Sahara last night I was deeply saddened. May he rest in peace.
MIKE->
hehe.. well I hvnt seen a cementry fr ages nw.. except in my dreams :S
BINOCULAR->
Thnx
HILATH->
Sad to hear that.. may he rest in peace.
I knew last week one of my classmate died . I was shocked. Never knew he was sick. My Prayers are always with him. Forgive me for being a careless friend.
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